Divorce in Reality: Before couples become entwined in marriage, they need to protect their assets should things fall apart  

Despite reports to the contrary, the institution of marriage is alive and thriving throughout the world. Tying the knot remains a supreme act of love and commitment, and many studies suggest married couples are healthier, wealthier and happier than unmarried ones.

This state of wedded bliss, though, is not always sustained. There is a growing acceptance of divorce, especially in countries where women are economically self-sufficient. Hong Kong has even been dubbed the ‘divorce capital of Asia’.

With this in mind, many legal advisers are suggesting couples should consider this eventuality – however, painful – and draw up a prenuptial agreement well ahead of the wedding day. Such contracts have become increasingly popular in the Western world, and it is far easier and less onerous to outline arrangements for a potential split beforehand, rather than when trust in a marriage breaks down.

“It can sometimes be a delicate conversation to have following an engagement, and it is important to choose the moment carefully,” says Vanessa Duff, a Partner at law firm Charles Russell Speechlys, who advises high-net-worth individuals on all aspects of family law.a

Division of spoils

A prenuptial agreement will normally set out how to divide assets on a future breakdown of the marriage, as well as address the welfare of any minor children. It should deal with pre-marital wealth, and what happens to assets built up during the marriage or received during the marriage from a non-matrimonial source, such as inheritance. Ideally, both parties should have independent legal advice; there should be an absence of pressure or duress; and the agreement should be signed a minimum of 28 days before the wedding.

“Prenuptial agreements are recommended for those who may be entering into a (possibly second or third) marriage in later life and wish to protect their children and assets they have built up in the past,” says Duff. Having such an agreement is crucial, she adds, in cases where one party has significant inherited wealth or a business to protect.

She believes the attitude of the Hong Kong younger generation to prenups is much more accepting and practical today than it was in previous decades, especially for those who legally hold assets on behalf of their parents or relatives. “It is therefore essential to clarify in such an agreement that those assets belong to a third party,” she says.

Pre-wedding planning

All relationships go through tricky spells from time to time, and no one can foretell the future with certainty. A breakdown of trust happens when transfers of assets to third parties are discovered later in the relationship, without any prior discussion or agreement. “It is always better to discuss and agree this in advance with the other party,” she advises.

She indicates this exchange of financial information is part of a wider picture of building up trust in a relationship, where transparency and openness is key, and candidly talking about expectations with regard to working arrangements and who will look after the children.

There are risks on relying on the courts to settle the financial arrangements of a break up. As Duff points out: “That means pre-acquired and inherited assets are also potentially vulnerable. Without an agreement it is difficult to ringfence certain assets and ensure that the interests of children from a former relationship are protected.”

Equal split

“The starting point in Hong Kong in the event of a divorce is for all worldwide assets to be divided 50/50, irrespective of their origin, and there is also a presumption that both parties are to be treated equally and fairly,” says Duff.

“If done correctly, a prenuptial agreement will carry significant weight with the court. Any prenuptial will need to ensure that the reasonable financial needs of both parties are met.”

Duff says the court will only depart from equality if there are ‘good reasons’ for doing so. “Without a prenup, it relies on the lawyers to come up with legal arguments and ‘good reasons’ as to why these assets should not be included in the event of a divorce.”

Legal grey area

Hong Kong-based lawyer Sanjeev Aaron Williams says that a prenup serves as a point of reference for the courts, but cautions that they have the power to review whether the terms are reasonable. He advises parties entering into such an agreement to seek certainty of jurisdiction and governing law.

Ultimately, having a prenuptial agreement provides a couple with a degree of certainty and predictability, rather than leaving it to the court system to decide. It minimises financial anxiety and offers reassurance in the eventuality of an end to their marriage.

In trusts we trust

Another legal mechanism to consider when protecting wealth and pre-acquired assets in the event of divorce is a trust. “Trusts are becoming an increasingly popular wealth-planning tool, especially for high-net-worth individuals,” notes Jocelyn Tsao, a Partner at Withers’ Hong Kong office. “The usual objectives would be to minimise tax, protect assets from potential creditors, and plan for succession

Since most trusts are set up with the primary purpose of estate planning and asset protection, they may not address the contingency of a divorce. Tsao warns of the dangers of this oversight, saying: “Without considering divorce in a trust arrangement, some aspects of the trust setup might render the trust vulnerable to being ‘attacked’ in a divorce situation.”

She points out that the Hong Kong court has the power to vary any nuptial settlement, and it may regard the trust as a financial resource even if it was established prior to marriage. This scenario in case of divorce would render assets held in trust vulnerable to being shared by a divorcing spouse or the divorcing spouse of a couple’s child.

“Hence, more individuals and families who plan to set up trusts now are seeking advice on how to ensure that the wealth held in the trust would be safe from being shared in the event of a divorce,” says Tsao.

Spousal claims

Anisha Ramanathan, a fellow Partner at Withers in Hong Kong, reveals that it is important to get spousal consent before setting up a trust during a marriage so as to demonstrate that it wasn’t established specifically to defeat the legitimate claims of the other party in the event of divorce.

It is possible to re-settle or restructure the trust after it has been set up, though Tsao warns that “such variation may be seen as an attempt to defeat a divorcing spouse’s claim if it is done three years prior to the divorce ¬– in which case the court has the power to set aside such variation.”

The independence of the trustee is another key consideration when establishing a trust, especially if the marriage ends in divorce. It is the trustee who controls the assets in the trust and makes decisions on its administration and asset investment.

“Divorce can impact the trust where proceedings involve either the settlor or the beneficiaries. In either case, the trustees should show themselves to be independent and there may be cost consequences if they act inappropriately,” says Ramanathan. She highlights the landmark 2014 case of Kan Lai Kwan v Poon Lok To Otto, in which the court considered the trustees were not acting independently and decided in favour of the wife.

Nuptial necessities

In an ideal world it is best to have both a prenuptial agreement and a postnuptial agreement in place in terms of protecting your assets in a trust, according to Billy Ko, another Hong Kong Partner at Withers. “As the name postnuptial agreement suggests, such an agreement is signed after marriage, and therefore the possible argument of being forced to sign the agreement under duress and undue pressure becomes less persuasive if the couple has gotten married already,” he says.

He also warns nuptial agreements are not “bullet proof”, and it is equally important for the party(ies) seeking protection to handle their finances properly during marriage. “For this reason, if there’s any particular asset that one would like to protect, it is important that it is ‘ringfenced’ and kept entirely separate from your spouse,” he emphasises.

Every scenario should be considered when one is wealth planning, including the possibility of one of the partners in the marriage losing mental capacity. “In order to avoid this, one could sign an Enduring Power of Attorney to appoint one or more individuals to manage the donor’s finances in the event the donor loses the mental capacity to do so,” he says.

Fam Together

Right now, over at Kimpton Kitalay Samui.

Discover the Ultimate Family Getaway and make your family trips absolutely special and enchanting with Kimpton Kitalay Samui! Look forward to some gastronomic fun because quality food and beverages are their business, the five restaurants and bars are designed to take you on varied gastronomic adventures throughout the day and between cities.

Nestled along the stunning shores of Koh Samui, the Kimpton Kitalay Samui offers families the perfect tropical retreat. This vibrant resort is designed with kids and parents in mind, promising an unforgettable experience for all ages.

Whether you opt for a pool access room or spread out in a spacious two-bedroom layout, you’ll find thoughtful in-room amenities to make your family feel right at home.

The real magic, however, begins at the JUNIO kids’ club – a vibrant oasis of color and creativity. Here, young adventurers can immerse themselves in a world of inspiring activities, from arts and crafts to cultural experiences and outdoor games. Meanwhile, parents can enjoy a much-deserved break, indulging in therapeutic spa treatments or simply relaxing by the sparkling pools.

To make the most of your family vacation, be sure to take advantage of the resort’s “Family Time” package. Available for stays of 3 nights or more until July 15, 2024, this exclusive offer includes an extra bed, roundtrip airport transfers, complimentary children’s activities, and dining discounts – everything you need for endless days of fun and memory-making.

As the sun sets, gather the family for movie nights, daytime treats, and other enchanting experiences that will leave you with a lifetime of cherished moments. Whether you’re seeking relaxation or adventure, the Kimpton Kitalay Samui promises to deliver an unforgettable family getaway in the heart of tropical paradise.

Lasting Memories

With our huge JUNIO kids’ club, inspiring activities, daytime treats, movie nights and more, this is a haven of color and creativity for young explorers.

Under our new “Family Time” package, parents and kids can enjoy endless days of fun with an extra bed, airport roundtrip transfers, complimentary children’s activities, dining discounts and more! Book your stay for three nights or longer from now until 15 July 2024.

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Best new Christmas movies to watch on Netflix

Home-bound for the holidays? There’s no perfect time to cosy up with close friends and family with a laugh out loud and heart-warming Christmas flick this long weekend. Here are Gafencu’s top picks of new Christmas movies to stream on Netflix this weekend…

Love Hard

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Genre: Comedy, Romance

Chasing Mr. Perfect 3,000 miles from home for a Christmas surprise after swiping right on an online dating app, L.A writer Natalie Baurer (Nina Dobrev) finds out that she has been catfished by Josh Lin (Jimmy O. Yang) and the both get tangled in an unlikely but heart-warming friendship that touches on what it means to be in an honest relationship with others, and yourself. 

Single all the way

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Genre: Comedy, Romance

Celebrating LGBTQ, this Netflix original follows Peter who asks his best friend, Nick, to play as his boyfriend on a Christmas visit home, but things emotions an unexpected turn when his family chimes in as matchmaker changing their plans — and their feelings for each other. 

 

A Castle For Christmas

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Genre: Adventure, Comedy, Feel-good

Receiving glowing reviews and starring Brooke Shields and Cary Elwes, the story follows best-selling author Sophie (Brooke Shields) as she escapes to Scotland to avoid a scandal, falling inlove with a castle. Unfortunately, she has to face off with the prickly duke who owns it. 

A Boy Called Christmas

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Genre: Adventure, Family 

Nikolas, a determined young boy who sets out on an adventure to the north pole, searches for his father who has set off for a quest of his own to uncover the magical land of the fabled elves. Along the way, he takes Blitzen, a headstrong reindeer and a devoted pet mouse, bringing home the gift of hope. 

Dash & Lily

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Genre: Romantic Comedy

Based on the YA novel Dash & Lily’s Book of Dares by Rachel Cohn & David Levithan, Dash & Lily plays out into a whirlwind holiday romance when opposites cynical Dash (Austin Abrams) and optimistic Lily (Midori Francis) find themselves exchanging messages and dares back and forth in a red notebook around New York. 

David and the elves

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Genre: Comedy, Family, Fantasy

Young David prepares to move to the big city with his parents but finds himself losing the spirit of Christmas when he meets Albert, the elf. Together they travel to the Tatra mountains to embark on a journey to find David’s grandparents and remind him what the spirit of Christmas is all about. Available in various subs and dubs.

 

Holiday Rush

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Genre: Drama, Family

Popular radio DJ Rush Williams (Romany Malco) has been forced to leave his life of luxury behind to move in with his aunt after suddenly getting fired, bringing along his four spoiled children, stirring up a comedic family drama starring Romany Malco, Sonequa Martin-Green and Darlene Love and directed by Leslie Small.

 

Verdura: The Perfect Spot for a Family-Golfing Getaway

Set on the southern Italian island of Sicily, Verdura – UK-headquartered Rocco Forte Hotels’ first golf and spa resort in the region – has an ideal view looking out across the Mediterranean. Perhaps more crucially, it also boasts three luxury golf facilities – two 18-hole courses and one-nine-hole variant – making it the dream destination for the family that likes to tee-off together.

Verdura

With European Tour Performance Institute also close at hand, it is also the perfect locale to improve your posture and streamline your swing under the expert tutelage of obliging professionals. It additionally delivers access to much of the game-enhancing technology favoured by many of the current generation of peerless pros.

Verdura

It’s also a resort that has won a number of awards, not least Best Golf Hotel (Italy) at the 2015 World Golf Awards and the Golden Award for Golf at the 2015 Voyages & Hôtels Readers Awards.

Of course, there is more to the resort than just golf, with a range of other five-star experiences – including spa treatments, wine tasting, cooking and mixology classes and a six-day lifestyle wellness programme – also on offer. For the culinary inclined, there’s also an opportunity to be initiated into secrets of the region’s most renowned recipes and to sample some of the finest local produce.

Verdura

It goes without saying, of course, that all the rooms and amenities are absolutely the last word in comfort, luxury and sheer indulgence.

8 Hong Kong farms to check out for all your green needs

Are lunar new year resolutions even a thing? If so, and yours include “going green” this Year of the Dog, we’ve put together a few grassroots movements in Hong Kong that you can check out for a more wholesome 2018. From glamping to organic shopping, these farms will get you on the right track the fun, interactive (and delicious!) way.

GrowingSmart.HK – Permaculture-based programs, workshops and volunteer activities www.growingsmart.hk

Evergreens Republic – Order locally grown organic produce (harvested and delivered within 24 hours) from the largest and only USDA certified organic commercial Aquaponics farm to operate in Southeast Asia www.evergreensrepublic.com

Nature’s Harvest

Nature’s Harvest – a natural environment connecting visitors with their local and natural food system whilst escaping to a rural retreat in Clearwater Bay www.naturesharvest.com.hk www.veggies.hk

HK Farm – An organisation of Hong Kong farmers, artists and designers who grow local food, curate exhibitions and design products / services relating to urban agriculture www.hkfarm.org

Eat Fresh – An organic e-Greengrocery delivery where you can get packaged organic products like gluten-free brownies, baby & toddler fresh seasonal produce subscriptions or coconut body milk www.eatfresh.com.hk

Homegrown Foods – an e-grocery delivering premium, sustainable clean food to most anywhere in Hong Kong, 7 days a week www.homegrownfoods.com.hk

Go Green – An organic pineapple park and BBQ / camping / events venue in Yuen Long www.gogreenlife.com.hk

Sai Yuen Farm – One of several farm staycations have also sprung up. This one in Cheung Chau features glamping; you can check into Stargazing Geodesic domes, Transparent igloos set on a higher elevation offering breathtaking views of sea and sky. At night, the see-through ceilings yield unobstructed visions of twinkling stars from the comfort of your bed. At HK$3,300 a pop on weekends, prices are comparable to hotels in the city. www.saiyuenfarm.com

 

Words: Julienne C. Raboca